Adding Magic to your Job Hunt
by Christopher Howell
First published in Focus News, The Expat Information
and Lifestyle Magazine
Summer Edition, 2005. |
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If you were to start reading an article about embracing the job hunt in Britain as an expatriate, most likely you wouldn’t be expecting to see the word ‘magic’ in the second half of the sentence. I’ll admit, at first glance the obviously functional task of looking for a job and magic hardly seem to be two things you’d put together.
My work is to show people that they are not passive receptacles to outside forces, but instead are skilled magicians who actively create their realities. They can apply these reality-altering skills to a spectrum of ‘real world’ topics. In the context of this article in particular, we’ll be examining how magic skills can literally transform the journey of an expatriate’s job hunt.
Let me first explain what I mean by “magic”. Magicians create illusions for their audiences by altering the information that is perceived. This allows the magician to make seemingly impossible things possible. From this idea, I can say that all people are magicians in the sense that they have this power to alter the information they perceive and therefore can change their reality.
A demonstration:
I’ll give an example from a recent job seeker’s workshop. I took three different-coloured flags (yellow, red and blue). I assigned each one a separate symbolic meaning. The yellow flag represented the internal factors when striking out on the job hunt: i.e. personal opinions and expectations. The red flag represented external factors we can’t control: i.e. economic movements or company agendas. My assistant from the audience held onto those yellow and red flags.
That meant there’s one flag left for me to hold onto. My blue flag was the magic one that represented the relationship between the other two. This relationship is a two-way street: 1) INPUT – how you filter the information you’re taking in and, 2) OUTPUT – how you project your internal world onto the outside.
Understanding the magic blue flag is crucial when approaching a job search. That flag therefore disappeared from my hand and reappeared tied between the yellow and the red flags in the hands of my assistant! The magic blue flag was in place!
The power of assumptions:
So what’s so important about this blue flag? I often illustrate this point by teaching a simple magic trick to the audience. At first, the trick seems impossible to them even though they see me doing it with ease. We examine the situation more closely and realize that the false assumptions they were projecting onto the situation were actually blocking them from reaching the goal of doing the trick.
The solution was achieved by examining our assumptions about the situation, not by changing the situation itself. The same goes for ‘real life’. In the job hunt: often if we change our perspective, the ‘new reality’ that we discover can be surprising.
By learning this simple trick, we learn the importance of three points:
1) Questioning your assumptions: because wrong assumptions can make possible things impossible.
2) Being flexible to change your perspective: by asking questions, it can show you a whole new reality.
3) Knowing that beliefs are self-fulfilling prophecies: as Henry Ford once said, “Whether you think that you can, or that you can't, you are usually right”..
The world outside is always changing. This means it’s necessary for us to keep learning. Keep asking those questions. The importance of this is even greater as an expatriate. Not only may you be clinging to assumptions from the past about your job or the hunt itself (remember these assumptions may or may not have been correct), but also as an expat you’re bringing those assumptions with you into a new environment. This factor magnifies the importance of the three above points.
Tools for the job-seeker:
“Ok”, you tell me. “All this is very well and good, but what about the red flag? Those external obstacles that are standing in my way?” What about the block that may be preventing you from getting a foot in the door of a certain company? Or a slow economy that has diminished the need for your current field of expertise?
I’m not pretending for a moment that obstacles don’t exist. But my point is that magicians get around obstacles. To reach the goal, you need to stop focusing on the obstacles you assume are in place and instead explore all the possible ways in which you might be able to reach the goal. If your eye is focused on the goal, you actually can’t see the obstacles in the way. In this way, they disappear. It’s a decision about what you focus your attention on. To make those obstacles disappear with respect to the job hunt, I’d recommend the following tactics:
• Be creative with expanding your network
• Don’t discard options you know little about
• Brainstorm new possibilities
• Question beliefs you may have “brought from home”
• Remember that constant change calls for constant learning
All these objectives require flexible thinking. Try and get out of the ruts of thought that we so easily form in our daily lives. Question why you’re thinking the way you’re thinking.
Thinking skills for achievement
With this flexible state of mind, you can more easily embark on a practical three-step process: First, decide what it is that you want (there might be numerous versions of this). Second, as you move forward towards your goal(s), be sure to stay alert to what your senses are telling you and be careful of how you’re filtering that information. How is your past or how are assumptions influencing the way in which you’re decoding the information you’re taking in? And is the feedback telling you that the goal may need to be altered? Third, use your flexibility to keep changing what you’re doing until you get where you want to be.
Your magic
People tend to think of reality as a fixed thing. I, as a fellow magician, would suggest instead that reality is actually three things: what we know, what and how we feel, and what and how we perceive and think. None of these elements is fixed. Together all of these aspects play a major role in how you approach the job hunt as an expatriate, and can lead to surprising results.
Often you are not in a position to define the external factors that may play a role in influencing the direction of your job search. But by taking on board the concepts of magic we’ve explored, you are always in a position to use that blue flag and affect the manner in which you interact with the outside elements. This decision could very well help make impossible things possible.
© Christopher Howell, 2005
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